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review: "111 reasons to love open" - Cornelia Jönsson & Simon Maresch

- An ode to open relationships, polyamory, and the friendship

"The traditional relationship concept of two people who meet in a lifetime in the heart, in bed and in the spirit is, in today no longer fits all. Every human being has many different needs that one partner can not meet often. The opening of a relationship is a flexible alternative if you have more than one wants to share his life. "

On the subject of polyamory, there is so far not much written. All the better that the two (election) Berliners, who love themselves polyamorously, have devoted to this subject.

Promises subtitle of this book that it will hold. What could have been a boring guide can be revealed as a very entertaining, rich book, which is based on the characters and the subject of open relationships polyamory and worked up to life can be. My fear was that this work work your theory or gray along with a wagging finger reminds us how to become a better person, a better relationship with nature. But the approach remains the one very close to the action, in which the theory remains but that is no such example in the life of the protagonists, their biographies and current life situations to practice.

The protagonists are the inhabitants of a Berlin flat, namely Florian and Annika, which are the same age, have a relationship and expecting a child together, Magrit, which maintains a relationship with Annika essential older than this and at the same time in an open marriage, living together with children and Cem, philosopher, and gay relationships is anything but interested. But these four characters also have friends that play important role in their lives.

So it says in the preface:

"We no longer believe that love can be won by freedom must We no longer share our relations in 'important' and 'less important', with life partner is very important and friends a lot. less important. "

The 111 reasons to which the theme in each case hangs is the chapter headings, the content is developed in the chapter. Although the book follows a storyline, but one can often simply read a chapter, without being lost.

polyamory is not considered a cure-all. But the focus a life and love set addressed, also at this day still is anything but commonplace, and requires a lot of rethinking. The mere idea of \u200b\u200bloving more than one person is hard to imagine for many people. Or is it conceivable - for oneself, but to admit that freedom to your partner? As it often hears on

No taboo topic. jealousy

polyamorously the people live, are not automatically eifersuchtsfei. It has just got to read that the authors address this issue also. Jealousy is not a poyamores taboo subject, but as a cultural phenomenon considered, which is internalized through socialization and therefore requires special reflection. Thus, all protagonists reflect on jealousy, come to the conclusion that this is often a fear of loss, or a fear of being inadequate. That jealousy problem but often also a person with himself. The fact that she is afraid to be inadequate, it must have with the partner and his activities to do nothing

Conclusion. Let's be realistic - we try the impossible

I for my part recommend this book highly. It is pleasant to read and easy, containing yet here and there philosophical theories. It's not a perfect way, but indicates that the way in which polyamory is lived, depends on the participants and their needs. It also shows that basically, nothing is impossible, because it simply is not up to standard. That relationships can change with the people and their Bedüftnissen. That a new love from an old or not replace, but can lead to an enrichment for all involved.

111 reasons to love open
Cornelia Jönsson, Simone Maresch

Schwarzkopf & Schwarzkopf

€ 9.90