of all, all, at least since the 90s, the condom should be established as a first line of control in terms of sex. The question of whether you are escorted back home who can, to a large extent depend on whether the person concerned as is also supplied with rubber.
In my teenage years it was kind of cool to have a condom in Portemonait. Funny As we were that we had the rubber ready, rarely those who needed it really. But we could stand aside and actively paarungswütigen copies of our pubescent species having a cool "clear" to the question: "have you even a rubber?" Answer. We could evenings, perhaps even save lives. In any case, we felt great, responsible and mature it, condoms us to tow with. And we have others who themselves had not, bail out and help them in safe way to their happiness. possess
a condom to buy condoms, which were things that gave it to me at least the feeling of being adults. I am responsible, to be ready sexually active, it should at least be ready to take control in the hand when and if I have sex because I do not leave me in terms of condom on someone else, but can act independently. It really gave me a feeling of freedom, independence, sexual self-awareness, to provide me with rubber bands. And it also had something of a civic duty. To face not only pregnancy but also sexually transmitted diseases in the path. The fight against AIDS to actively support.
But at some point coming to this initial euphoria, the sense of achievement, the partner a condom - even in the dark - on strip to be able to an end. Verantworungsvoller sex or not. He also has disadvantages.
It is the middle of it. In an ecstatic state, wild, unbridled, devouring each other with their mouths, tongues, hands, wrapped around the arms and legs and can not wait to merge, unite in a Leidenschaftzu, which in itself is not really common, nunmal but depends on many factors. In this situation now, you have to quit. The condom dig out of the closet, shelling from the pack and eventually to impose. Go into position, make sure that it does not slip. And then we can proceed. While
This break may be so much of that energy that had built up its already gone. to place a condom is an action that you should exercise but not necessarily full of passion and fervor. After tearing the thing yet. What to do?
There are many other situations in which condoms can be tricky. Some women are covering the additional friction surface (faster) wound, some men have the Schwellschwäche. Or can thus not be so good. Or just simply the reason: "Without's is so much nicer".
Ah, yes ... for whom? As I said, I realize that there are disadvantages in terms of the condom. I also think that in a longer term relationship may well be useful to take distance from the condom. The point here is how to feel comfortable with the idea that the persons concerned, and what other precautions are taken.
For everything else, I would argue essential for the condom. The frustration here is simply that the condom is indeed the small 1x1's sex life, it's just for young people who start new a cool thing, they will all face, "Give AIDS a Chance" posters, this is the rubber but is still not a utensil, which is neatly integrated into the sex life. Rubber cover = interruption. Do it like that? Nothing needs! I'm even not so much with, but I am firmly convinced that there is a way to attach the rubber and a sensory component, instead of declaring it a nuisance. Just as I am also of the opinion that the passionate sexual energy does not need to unload in coitus. It is expected to halt it, but you can not the sex often enough to invent new.
Then there's the media: on the one hand, anti-AIDS campaigns, it's cool to wear a red ribbon and prominent to be. On the other hand, the condom in books and films is often weggeschwiegen times. It is so deep, that this is a non-erotic, almost bureaucratic act. Just then the condom is rare in porn, and it is there to see it already in one or the other productions.
It is a paradox. On the one hand, condoms as civic duty, on the other hand, as a disruptive factor, the media hide even if it is not to just go explicitly about sex with a condom. A normal handling is not so, however, maintained. Erotic is not the condom as a civic duty, even as a disruptive factor.
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